Failed – Poly Relationship
I’ve been seeing this guy I met from a dating app for a few months. He’s very kind and sweet and I enjoy my time with him. It’s not official, but I’ll call him my bf so not to confuse. However, I desire something more. I’ve always wanted to have a poly relationship. I’m not really into the whole traditional relationship thing. In fact, I usually hang out in alternative dating forums spouting my interest in poly romance.
I would say the majority of the men I date are submissive. However, I’m not really dominant. I just like the rewards of a submissive gentleman. I appreciate their attention to please. They have a selfless aspect that can is admirable.
He said he had kissed a few guys for fun. I was very excited by the thought of it..
One day I asked my boyfriend some random question, along with if he had ever kissed a guy. He said he had kissed a few guys for fun. I was very excited by the thought of it. “A few guys?” I said Wow! OooKay! I asked him for details. Did they kiss on the lips..with tongue? So he showed me what he did. He kissed me for at least a whole minute. I don’t think I’ve ever been more turned on in my life (at that time).
I asked him if he was bisexual. He said no. I then asked if he was attracted to men. He said yes, but was more attracted to women. OooKay!
Eventually he said he was bisexual.
I could not believe my luck. I had been dating a bisexual guy for the last few months. My dream guy.
I told him that I was interested in poly relationships. I said we should go to a gay club and find another guy. I was going crazy with idea’s on what to do next.
Unfortunately, I learned the hard way that just because someone is bisexual, they might not be poly. My heart was crushed. My hopes and dreams were gone. I was sad and my new bf seemed embarrassed about revealing his true sexual orientation. Our relationship pretty much ended after that.
The only thing one can do is try, try again. It took another few months before I met 2 bisexual men that were already in a relationship. However, that is another story. For now, I will end with this failed poly relationship attempt.
Failed Poly Relationship ~ by anonymous