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How to Have a Threesome!

How to Have a Threesome

Have you been trying to figure out how to have a threesome? You’re not alone. Although threesomes are becoming more popular, they are still not acceptable to the mainstream world.

And if you just so happen to be married, or in a relationship, and ask your boyfriend or girlfriend to have a threesome, you may very well end your relationship. In this case, you will need to decide if a threesome is worth the risk in losing your partner. So in this article, we will offer advice for singles, and people dating, but not in a relationship, just yet. In order to have a threesome, you will need to be more creative and bold in your approach in the realms of dating. You should use online dating, as well as phone apps. Be honest and make sure you know precisely how and what type of threesome you desire.

For offline dating, we will give you advice on how to approach people, and where. Do you want this threesome to turn into something more, such as a FWB (friends with benefits), or perhaps even a poly relationship (long-term). You might become frustrated in your search for the perfect threesome, but hopefully, with some help and guidance, we can smooth things along.

How to Have a Threesome

1. Use threesome dating apps | like Thirder

Right now, the best way to meet people for a threesome, are dating apps. You can use generic dating apps. But the best way to meet people for your threeway, are actual threesome dating apps. These apps are for people that have a desire for finding a threesome. You will meet many open-minded people, seeing what you seek.

Thirder: threesome dating app

Thirder allows you to meet people for threesomes where ever you are. The cool thing about using the Thirder app is that it has GPS enabled so that you can travel to a new city, and locate additional Thirders. Thirder also allows you to check out users profiles, and see what they truly seek. No more guessing if they are straight, or bisexual, seek long-term or a hook-up/fwb. Locate bisexuals only, or couples only. If you plan on visiting a new city next week, you can passport to that city first and meet new people, before arriving.

Be persistent

Use different dating apps, check on your matches. Even consider taking at least 15 minutes a day, to swipe around and see’s new. Check your messages. Message your matches. Meet people for a coffee and indulge in conversing about your hobbies and interest. Make sure to talk about your threesome interest. This is not the time to be shy.

Group date

Try to meet more than one person off of the threesome dating app at once. This can be extremely fun. Go out for beers, having a good time dancing and hanging out. See where the night leads to. At the very least, you met some like-minded individuals.

Follow up on your dates

Did you have a good time with your date(s)? Let them know. Forget about the 3-day wait and see crap. Just send them a text saying you had a nice time.

Bonus tip: Ask your date out again as soon as the next day. If your new date is seeking a Thirder, you need to get together and both collaborate in finding the Thirder. If you met with your Thirder or had a group date, meet again asap. Waiting over a week to go out again will cause your date(s) to forget the familiarity of being with you. People like to be comfortable around each other. Meet asap again. I cannot stress this enough.

2. Try dating sites and classified ads

Hi, my name is Sara. I’m from Springfield, Ohio. I am 5ft 4in, have long brown hair and a cat name Rex. I am on here to find not just one, but two partners. I would like to meet couples or individuals to have a threesome.

Again, don’t be shy about your desires. Go ahead and join a few dating sites, write your description, and be specific on your interest in a threesome.

Be persistent in posting in classifieds. Make sure you post in the correct category, or your had might be flagged for removal. Make sure you specify the type of men and/or women you seek, or you could be flooded with people you don’t desire (especially for women). If you don’t seem to be receiving many, or any replies, check out a few more of my tips below. Just keep an open mind, because they are going to get a little bit racier.

3. Go to a swingers, BDSM or sex club

Have you ever been to a swingers or sex club? They may not be easy to find or spot, but with a little bit of digging, you will find them.

Have you ever had sex at a club? Just make sure to bring plenty of condoms.

How about a BDSM club? Don’t think you’re all that sexy? Wear a leather mask, get on your knees and crawl around. Find a Master, or possibly a Master/Mistress couple. They usually will have many slaves, and seek more. Think you have what it takes to be a Master/Mistress? Go to the club and wait for lone submissives to crawl to you. Try to go often and become a regular at these clubs. You will soon collect many followers and have a lovely harem of sexy toys to play with.

4. Just ask your date if they would try it

Don’t be afraid to ask your Match, or POF date if they would ever try a threesome.

I recommend asking them first, before meeting.

You might want to simply sneak it into your profile, then ask if your date read your profile.

“Oh hey, so you did read my profile, right?”

“Yes.” they reply

“..did you like it or have any questions?”

“I liked it.” they say

From my experience, if you’ve written that you seek a threesome, or poly relationship, or bisexual individuals for a threeway, they know what’s going on. They know what you seek and are either very curious about it, or want the same thing.

Just be 100% honest in your profile. And don’t get discouraged when disagree’s with your preferences.

5. Meetup and Facebook groups

There are so many threesome and poly dating groups around the world. Just go to Facebook or Meetup.com and search for threesome/poly dating groups. Many times they are listed in very large cities, so you may need to travel a bit to get to the fun and action. Speaking of, that leads me to the next tip.

6. Travel to San Francisco, NYC, London, Berlin, Stockholm

I travel a lot. And I travel not for business, but for pleasure. I have stayed in many small and large cities. I’ll narrow down the list to the top cities to visit (or move to), for your next Thirder, threesome encounter:

San Franciso: I love this city. I grew up in downtown Los Angeles and there’s a different kind of open-mindedness in SF. Just go there, you’ll see. Check out the BDSM groups, the poly/threesome meetups, just go check that place out.

Berlin: sex club capital of the world.

NYC: You have a little bit of everything here.

London: My favorite. Prostitution is legal. Lot’s of wealth and class. Amazing clubs.

Stockholm: I mention Stockholm specifically because they have a very nice BDSM scene here. Great if you love blondes.

7. Make lots of money

It’s no secret. If you have money, threesomes come easy. We all know of many celebrities that partake in poly households, or have several partners. It is a known fact that rich people are more inclined to have threesomes. So, become rich and enjoy all the fruits that come with it.

8. Become a porn star

This one is fairly simple. Check out the wanted ads on various sites. Make sure they’re legit and have contracts. But if you get hired, it’s a sure bet you’ll enjoy threesomes while getting paid. They have categories for black, white, old, young, fat, skinny, pretty and ugly!

9. Hire a few prostitutes

I know. I know, it’s not what you wanted, but it’s a sure way to get what you want. Just make sure it’s legal. Try Amsterdam, or London.

10. Try a BDSM website

Are you submissive or dominant? Find a Mistress or Master seeking many slaves. Or seek out slaves. Seek and add  keywords to your profile such as “poly-house” or “cuckold”.

11. Try everything above at least once

Okay. At least a few of the things about at least once. Then leave us a comment on Facebook or the comment section below about how it went.

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