My Husband Wants A Threeway With Another Woman

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 My Husband Wants A Threeway With Another Woman

Question (anonymous): My husband wants a threeway with another woman (Threesome)

My Husband Wants A Threeway With Another WomanI’m considering doing it. We’ve been together for about 2 years now. He’s 31, I’m 26. No kids. One cat.   We met online.  Married after 6 months of dating.

I’m 100% straight. It’s just not that appealing to me. We sort of laughed at the idea while chatting about it. He’s even on various dating sites and apps, looking for the new girl already after I said I might try it. I told him I would kiss the other girl and that’s it. He can have sex with her (random girl on hookup site), but then he started talking about poly relationships. He said it would be great for me having someone to pick up on house work and having a friend around. This did appeal to me as I don’t know anyone where I live. I’m beginning to feel like this was his master plan all along.

…I’m beginning to feel like this was his master plan all along.

I feel like he’s a really good sales person, because I’m really considering all this. Why am I considering all this? Fear he’s getting bored of me after 2 years? Will he like the other girl more and leave me?

Thirder Answer’s: If you feel like he’s going to leave you if you don’t do this, you probably should reconsider your relationship. You need to have some power in this relationship as well. Don’t feel like you need to cater to him. I would personally ask him if he’d have a threesome with another guy and you. Whether you want to or not, just see if he will do it. Or see if he will fulfill one of your sexual desires.

Facebook Messenger Transcript

 

Thirder

Are you submissive? Because that may make some difference in your relationship structure.

Anony

..umm, ya I am. I think that’s why I’m okay with the threesome. I want to make him happy, but I don’t want to regret it. I want to see if I can enjoy this somehow.

Thirder
Thirder

Being submissive does not automatically mean to do whatever your husband (assuming he’s dominant) wants. You should be submissive to him, because he deserves it…just remember that 🙂

Let’s assume you are going to go ahead with the threesome. You and him will want to start by looking at women together. This will allow you to talk more about it, while getting used to the idea. Do not..do not let your husband bring a dominant woman into the bedroom with you. Someone in a dominant role earns that respect and trust, thus allowing you to feel comfortable submitting to them.  Stick with finding another very submissive woman. Find a submissive for him to play with. And just realize she, just as yourself, enjoys receiving pleasure from pleasing someone else.
..and last but not least, I am not a relationship expert. Just someone with experience in poly and threesomes. Please just take it slow, continue seeking out additional advice and try to have fun. If you continue your journey with him on trying out a poly relationship with someone, please write us back and update us.
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Should Anony Have a Threesome?

Yes, she seems cool enough to the idea
No. She has too many doubts
They shouldn’t be together
No. He’s probably cheating already
They should try a mmf
They should just be swingers.

 

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